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iPlay America rings in the New Year with a blast during the Fifth annual New Year’s Eve Bash from 7:30 p.m.-1 a.m. Thursday, Dec. 31. iPlay America’s New Year’s Eve Party pass includes unlimited rides and attractions, a $10 game card, party favors, spectacular prizes and giveaways throughout the evening, a confetti cannon, light show and great music pumping through the entire park, with a live D.J., all for just $39.99. A la carte treats can be purchased at Sonny’s Boardwalk Grill, Boardwalk Bites, Rob’s Pizza, The Grind Coffee Co. and Mixx Frozen Yogurt throughout the celebration.

The New Year’s Eve Party and Prix Fixe Dinner pass is just $79.99 for adults and $54.99 for children age 12 and younger. This pass includes everything in the New Year’s Eve Party Pass plus a champagne toast for adults 21 and older. Dinner reservations begin at 7:30 p.m. and are for 90 minute seatings with staggered seatings every 15 minutes. Toddlers are free. Reservations are required to 732-577-8200.

You can watch the ball drop on one of iPlay America’s multitude of big screen monitors. iPlay America is located at 110 Schanck Road in Freehold.For more information call 732-577-8200 or visit iPlayAmerica.com/NYE2016.

Munich attack survivor will speak in Marlboro

A member of the 1972 Israeli Olympic team will speak about the act of terrorism that claimed the lives of 11 Israeli athletes and coaches at the Summer Olympics in Munich, Germany.

Dan Alon will speak at 7:30 p.m. Jan. 19 at the Marlboro Middle School, Route 520, Marlboro. The event is open to the public. Chabad of Western Monmouth County will present the event, which is being sponsored in part by Sandra and Michael Weitz.

According to a press release, Alon was a member of the Israeli Olympic fencing team. His fencing career began when he was 12 and reached its peak at age 27 when he competed in the Olympics.

Alon will share his journey, the security concerns that were raised prior to the Olympic Games, the attack and the process of returning to normal life.

According to a press release, Alon recalls marching into the Olympic stadium in Munich, saying, “I was in heaven. It was the most beautiful day of my life.”

But Alon’s world was shattered five days later on Sept. 5 when eight Palestinian terrorists invaded the building where he and his 15 fellow athletes and coaches were living. Eleven were murdered in cold blood. Television viewers around the world watched as the events of that day unfolded, according to the press release.

Forty years after the Olympics, Alon was able to share the story of his escape and his journey of tolerance in “Munich Memoir,” a book he wrote in 2012.

Individuals of all ages, including sports teams, are invited to attend Alon’s presentation in Marlboro.

There will be a meet and greet with Alon at 6:30 p.m. Doors will open at 7 p.m. and the program will begin at 7:30 p.m. Ticket prices are as follows: corporate sponsors, $500; VIP seats, $72 per person, includes the “meet and greet” and front row seats; adult admission, $15 in advance, $20 after Jan. 17; and teens and students, $7.

For more information, call 732-972- 3687 or visit the website www.chabadwmc.org/Munich72.

Helping the community

 KATHY McBAIN/STAFF KATHY McBAIN/STAFF Lisa Marie Stecker of Greater Media Newspapers’ Advertising Department shows some of the food that was donated during a holiday food drive sponsored by the newspaper group from Dec. 9-21. The food was brought to the Food Bank of Monmouth and Ocean Counties, Neptune, for distribution throughout the region.

Team Kevin Strive gives youths a helping hand

Volunteers who share a passion for an active lifestyle regularly dedicate their time to individuals who have a medical disability.

The volunteers make up Team Kevin Strive, which was started to raise awareness and to show that people who have a medical disability can still be participants in an active lifestyle.

The nonprofit Team Kevin Strive started when Kim Hansen, of Freehold Township, entered herself and her son, Kevin, 16, in a race. Hansen said Kevin is a special needs child who is medically fragile, but loves to be active.

Hansen and her son have been racing for three years, while Team Kevin Strive is 1 year old.

“My passion is to let Kevin experience anything he can and wants to experience,” Hansen said. “It makes me really excited and happy to see him doing things he enjoys.”

She said Team Kevin Strive’s goal is to raise money that can be used to purchase wheelchairs that have been designed for racing. The equipment allows individuals who have special needs to participate in races in ways that would otherwise not be possible.

“We have racing chairs, bike chairs and even boat chairs that pull the kids in the water,” Hansen said. “Our motto is you can do anything if you just try.”

She said Team Kevin Strive provides opportunities to individuals with special needs who want the thrill of racing by providing a “pit crew” and racing chairs for races of different distances.

“This past year we have done two triathlons and numerous 5K runs,” Hansen said. “Being disabled does not mean you cannot achieve your goals. It is just amazing how unselfish everyone is in helping those in need. You want to help these kids have a really good experience.

“What is so amazing is that these volunteers come just because they want to. When they see these kids smile, they want to come back and do more with them and the kids just have a great time,” she added.

Team Kevin Strive is sponsored by Hooters restaurants. Hansen said Hooters and the Elizabeth Police Department help to raise awareness and money so that children who have special needs may have an active and fun lifestyle.

“The kids hit the finish line and there is really nothing more tear-jerking than going through that with the child you are pushing,” she said.

Individuals who would like to volunteer for Team Kevin Strive may visit the website www.teamkevinstrive.org for additional information.

Classical pianist performs at Music Hour

Alan Wasserman, sponsored by the Cecilian Music Club, recently presented his Music Hour at Freehold Music Center, Freehold Township.

The Music Hour, now celebrating its 10th anniversary, is designed to reach out to community members and enhance their knowledge and enjoyment of music, according to a press release.

Wasserman began by performing “Cee Bop,” an original jazz composition by composer arranger-teacher Phil Carr.

Wasserman then began his discussion of “The Elements of Music” and demonstrated each element at the piano.

For “Melody,” he chose “Comes a Time” by Hunter-Garcia. For a discussion of “Harmony,” he performed an improvisation on a “mantooth chord,” a voicing of a chord that lends itself to many possibilities, according to the press release.

For “Rhythm,” he played “Last Date,” by Floyd Cramer. Then he explained the term “timbre,” the quality of a musical sound, or a blending of sounds. Timbre was demonstrated with Chopin’s Preludes No. 1 and No. 3.

And for “Form,” Wasserman selected the second movement of Beethoven’s Piano Sonata, Opus 57, known as the Appassionata, which is a Theme and Variations.

The hour concluded with a rendition of “Hey Jude” by the Beatles.

Wasserman is a classical pianist and educator who has performed in Europe, China, Russia, and at Weill Hall at Carnegie Hall in New York City, according to the press release.

The Cecilian Music Club, founded in 1883, is an organization of teachers, performers and music lovers dedicated to the performance and study of music. For more information, or to become a member, visit www.cecilianclub.org.

Honoring America in the NFL

 PHOTO COURTESY OF MANALAPAN POLICE DEPARTMENT PHOTO COURTESY OF MANALAPAN POLICE DEPARTMENT The Manalapan Police Department Honor Guard presented the state and national colors prior the Dec. 13 NFL football game between the New York Jets and the Tennessee Titans at MetLife Stadium, East Rutherford. The honor guard members have opened three NFL games in the past two seasons — two for the Jets and one for the New York Giants. Pictured, left to right, are Sgt Rich Gallo, Lt. Kevin Dobbin, Patrolman Phil Accatatta, Patrolman Matt Meyler and Sgt Robert Herring. Police Chief Chris Marsala expressed his pride in having the members of the honor guard representing the residents of Manalapan, the Township Committee and the police department.

Two more suspects charged in 2011 murder, home invasions

A female resident of Manalapan and a male resident of Neptune have been charged for their respective roles in three 2011 home invasion robberies, including one home invasion that led to the murder of a Freehold Township resident, Monmouth County Acting Prosecutor Christopher J. Gramiccioni announced.

Ranu Sinha, 36, of Manalapan, and Ellis W. Goodson, 38, of Neptune, are each charged with three counts of first degree robbery, one count of first degree felony murder, two counts of second degree unlawful possession of a weapon, two counts of third degree possession of a weapon for an unlawful purpose, and one count of fourth degree possession of an imitation firearm, according to a press release.

Sinha and Goodson were charged on Dec. 23 and in an initial appearance before state Superior Court Judge Joseph Oxley they were formally served with the criminal charges and entered pleas of not guilty to those charges, according to the prosecutor’s office.

A joint investigation by the Monmouth County Prosecutor’s Office and the Freehold Township, Howell and Neptune Township police departments led to the arrests of Sinha and Goodson. The Manalapan Police Department assisted in the arrests of Sinha and Goodson last week.

Sinha and Goodson are charged as accomplices to Jeffrey Mayhue, 52, and Richard Busby, 58, both of Newark, in connection with three home invasion robberies at residences in Howell, Freehold Township and Neptune Township.

Michael Conway was murdered at his Jackson Mills Road residence in Freehold Township during the course of the home invasion spree that took place between May 14, 2011 and Sept. 8, 2011. During the first home invasion robbery that occurred at a residence on Brickyard Road, Howell, Mayhue allegedly entered the residence with a handgun, bound the occupants and stole a large sum of money. Sinha and Goodson are being charged as accomplices to those crimes, according to Gramiccioni.

The second event occurred on July 31, 2011, when Sinha, Goodson, Mayhue and Busby allegedly committed the home invasion robbery and murder of Conway. Mayhue and Busby were armed with a handgun and looking for money when they entered Conway’s home and discovered it was occupied by their would-be victim and his girlfriend during the early morning hours of July 31, 2011.

Mayhue and Busby allegedly killed Conway, set fire to the house and fled the scene. Conway’s girlfriend was able to escape from the burning house through a window, ran to a neighbor’s house and asked the neighbor to call 911, according to the press release.

In connection with this offense, Mayhue and Busby were indicted by a grand jury in November 2012, charging the pair with one count each of murder, felony murder, robbery, conspiracy to commit robbery, aggravated arson, unlawful possession of a weapon, possession of a weapon for an unlawful purpose and certain persons not to have weapons. Sinha and Goodson will now join Mayhue and Busby for their alleged roles in the robbery and Conway’s murder, according to Gramiccioni.

The third robbery occurred on Sept. 8, 2011, when Mayhue forcibly entered a residence on Drummond Avenue in Neptune Township brandishing what appeared to be a handgun. The robbery was thwarted by individuals in the home who held Mayhue until police arrived on scene.

In connection with that incident, Mayhue was indicted on charges of armed robbery and possession of an imitation firearm. Sinha and Goodson will now join Mayhue for their alleged roles in the Sept. 8, 2011 robbery.

The next step in the case against Sinha and Goodson will be the presentation of evidence to a grand jury in order to seek indictments against them, according to the prosecutor’s office.

Sinha and Goodson are both being held in the Monmouth County jail, Freehold Township, on $1.5 million cash only bail, as set by state Superior Court Judge Honora O’Brien Kilgallen.

Mayhue and Busby are also being held at the county jail as they await further developments in the case against them, according to the prosecutor’s office.

New year offers opportunity to organize

By CHRISTINE BARCIA
Staff Writer

Mise en place is a French culinary term that means “putting in place.” For chefs, having ingredients prepared and arranged before the cooking process begins allows for greater organization and efficiency in executing a recipe. Applying that concept in everyday life can bring that same organization to almost any task.

“The ability to be organized has become increasingly more important because living in contemporary America, life has become very complex and multifaceted. We live in an age of specialization which creates more options and more decisions,” said Michael Osit, Ed.D., a psychologist, author and speaker from Warren.

Osit offers an example. Forty years ago, he said, one would go to the grocery store to buy orange juice and it was available fresh or frozen and came in either a frozen can or a glass bottle.

“I recently went to the local market and found 27 varieties of orange juice — pulp, no pulp, some pulp, concentrate, vitamin D, and it now comes in cartons, juice boxes, pouches, bottles, etc.,” Osit said. Such mundane decisions can overwhelm individuals and lead to an inability to focus, and in turn, to stay organized.

“To become organized takes a good deal of emotional control and focus,” said Michael Zito, Ph.D., a psychologist with offices in Morristown and Watchung.

To get (and stay) organized, individuals must be “convinced of the value of organization,” Zito said.

Organization, Zito said, leads to better mental health by creating a “less stressful and better functioning” state of mind.

“Organized individuals run their life instead of their life running them. They are in control, which optimizes positive outcomes and minimizes stress and crisis occurring in their life,” Osit said.

According to National Association of Professional Organizers Member Director, Lori Vande Krol, good organizational systems reduce stress and allow people to focus time and energy on what matters most.

“With the speed and volume of information and clutter in our lives today, it has become even more important to have the right systems in place to manage it all,” Vande Krol said.

Organized people, Osit said, can greatly reduce anxiety when life is relatively predictable and surprises are at a minimum.

“Organized people frequently have a plan B, so they do not feel trapped or victimized in specific situations,” Osit said.

The first step to getting organized, whether at home or at work, involves a commitment to putting in the work upfront.

“Employ a ‘work now, play later’ philosophy,” Osit said.

In other words, “become a list maker and prioritize items,” Osit said.

Other suggestions that Osit offers include the following: immediately enter appointments into either a mobile phone or calendar; promptly list items on a to-do list; leave buffer time for appointments and deadlines to account for unexpected events such as traffic or illness; and develop routines for daily tasks so they are automatically completed.

Although technology is often designed to help with getting organized, the opposite effect often occurs.

“Technological devices can be critical tools to help a person be organized in their life if used appropriately (calendar, reminders, to-do lists, alerts, etc.), but they are also a significant distraction from the task at hand, which can cause inefficiency,” Osit said.

The Internet, tablets and mobile phones, Osit said, have created a “tremendous distraction from the present moment.

“Even when people are not sending or receiving messages, a piece of their attention is on the device that could buzz or vibrate at any moment.” Osit said.

Simple advice, like make a plan and stick to it, can facilitate greater organization.

“Put the keys in the key spot and the junk in the junk spot,” Zito said.

In the last decade, the organization industry has experienced growth, as evidenced by the increase in membership in the National Association of Professional Organizers. In 2005, there were 2,945 members, and today there are nearly 4,000 members, about a 30 percent increase, Vande Krol said.

“Interestingly, I am seeing a revitalized interest in living a simpler lifestyle by downsizing space, possessions and activities,” Vande Krol said.

Heather Pierce, owner of House in Order, a professional organization company serving central New Jersey, said the most common request she receives is for help in organizing paperwork.

“Many people hold on to much more paper than they need to because they don’t know what to keep and what to get rid of,” Pierce said.

People often become overwhelmed by the sheer volume of paper that enters their home whether it’s via mail, their child’s backpack or shopping receipts, Pierce said.

“They do nothing to clear the paper clutter. The result is often cluttered kitchen counters, drawers or cabinets, overstuffed filing cabinets, bags and boxes of papers that get moved from place to place, but never sorted and dealt with,” Pierce said.

Pam of Toms River, a client of Pierce, said her “breaking point” with clutter came after she retired and was at home amidst years of accumulated items.

“I started feeling overwhelmed with my possessions,” Pam said.

With Pierce’s service, Pam was able to organize papers that had piled up for years.

“Now I follow a path that there is a place for everything. I’ve been able to break old habits,” Pam said.

When Pierce meets with clients, she discusses any fears or anxieties they may have about the reorganization process.

“Every client is different, so my plan for each client may be different — what works for one person does not work for all. It is important to set clear expectations as far as the desired outcome, projected time needed to complete an organization project, costs of completing a project and the roles each of us will play in the overall completion of the organization project, Pierce said.

It takes a great deal of courage for many people to reach out to a professional organizer for help, Pierce said.

“Many people feel shame, anxiety and embarrassment about the disorganization of their home or office,” according to Pierce.

By conquering the clutter, she said, clients are able to focus on the things that matter most to them.

“Generally, you first want to determine your vision. In other words, how would your ideal space or day look and feel?” Vande Krol said.

Seeing a revitalized interest in living a simpler lifestyle, Vande Krol said, has led to individuals downsizing space, possessions and activities.

Organization Strategies

Get Organized at Home

Some basic tips for better organization at home, according to www.webmd.com, include: find a place for every item; keep clutter out of the house; shop for containers after de-cluttering is complete; get rid of duplicates; de-clutter nostalgia, such as children’s artwork, by taking a picture of a child holding art work or crafts.

Get rid of old clothes using the 80:20 rule: we wear 20 percent of the clothes we own 80 percent of the time; look for simple solutions, like a key hook by the front door; and schedule de-cluttering for areas that need it daily, weekly and monthly.

Get Organized at Work

A focus on time, space and mindset is the key to organization at work, according to www.entrepreneur.com.

Concerning time, the website recommends that individuals start the day with structured time by sorting through email and responding to quick responses and referrals right away, deleting unimportant information and scheduling more essential tasks.

Space, which refers to physical and virtual space, is critical to productivity, the website stated.

The absence of office interruptions can improve concentration when writing or researching a topic, and this might be a task better completed away from the office, according to the website.

Switching off pop-up notifications on mobile devices and on computers, in addition to limiting the number of times email is checked, can result in greater organization of virtual space.

Finally, there is an individual’s mindset. To reduce the feeling of overload and the procrastination associated with taking on overwhelming jobs, divide large tasks into small chunks to better focus, according to the website.

Get Organized at School

It’s as easy as ABC to keep school-related tasks in order, according to www.scholastic.com.

First: “A” place for everything — keep a ready-to-use homework kit filled with school supplies. Next, “be” focused — studying needs to come first when scheduling time and planning activities. Finally, “calendars” posted in a central place at home can help students prioritize tasks, such as test dates and report due dates.

Children should keep a small, personal to-do list in order to get a better understanding of time management, according to the website.

Contact Information

Fo info, visit the National Association of Professional Organizers at www.napo.net.

Manalapan zoners OK assisted living facility

By PETER ELACQUA
Staff Writer

The Manalapan Zoning Board of Adjustment has approved the construction of a 97-unit assisted living facility on Gordons Corner Road.

In a 7-0 vote, board members granted a use variance for an application filed by Meridian Living at Manalapan, LLC. Attorney Gerald Sonnenblick represented the applicant.

The use variance was required because an assisted living facility is not a permitted use in the commercial zone.

According to testimony presented in the case, the assisted living facility will be built on a seven-acre site at 289 Gordons Corner Road, between Dunkin Donuts at 285 Gordons Corner Road, and a KinderCare school at 293 Gordons Corner Road. There are single-family homes to the south of the assisted living facility’s parcel. The new building will share a driveway with KinderCare, according to the resolution approved by the zoning board Dec. 17.

The 97-unit assisted living facility will contain 55 studio units, 40 one-bedroom units and two two-bedroom family units. The zoning board will permit the assisted living facility to be 53 feet tall in a zone that does not permit a building to be taller than 50 feet.

An earlier application that proposed an office park on the property was withdrawn due to local opposition, according to the resolution. staff member or by ambulance. The applicant anticipates about three ambulance trips per week and said ambulances will not use a siren when entering the site, according to the resolution.

Aber said a shift of 20 nursing staff members will run from 7 a.m. to 3 p.m. Administrative staff shifts of 10 members will run from 8:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. or from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. The dietary department staffing is 10 members and their shifts run from 7 a.m. to 3 p.m. or from 11 a.m. to 7:30 p.m. A 15-member shift runs from 3-10 p.m., with the post-11 p.m. shift being staffed by five to seven employees.

Visiting hours are 8 a.m. to 8 p.m., however, visitors will also be permitted during off hours.

Traffic Engineer John Rea, representing the applicant, said that only a few residents of the assisted living facility will have a vehicle. Staff members and visitors may experience a minimal delay entering from or exiting to Gordons Corner Road, he said.

Board members agreed with Rea’s findings that the proposed facility would have a limited impact on trip generation and would not have any significant impacts on traffic or safety.

Architect Barry Brommer, representing the applicant, said plans call for a four-story building with 100,000 square feet of patient related spaces. The 97 living units will have a maximum of 120 beds. There will be a 1,250-square-foot maintenance garage and a 2,100-square-foot covered front porch.

The driveway will lead to a covered drop-off area at the front of the building. The site will contain areas for outdoor activities and a walking path.

The property is wooded with trees between 40 and 80 feet tall and the applicant will have to preserve some trees as a visual and physical buffer and will add additional evergreen trees as depicted on a landscaping plan, according to the resolution.

Two residents expressed concern about the building being visible from their property and one resident requested a fence along his property line, which Meridian’s representatives agreed to provide.

Superintendent’s pact extended

By CHRISTINE BARCIA
Staff Writer

A new contract has been approved for Freehold Borough K-8 School District Superintendent of Schools Rocco Tomazic.

The superintendent’s contract was discussed during a Board of Education meeting on Dec. 14.

Members of the public were given the opportunity to comment on Tomazic’s contract, but no one from the public spoke, Business Administrator Joseph Howe said.

“The board voted unanimously to approve the contract,” he said.

Tomazic said he is appreciative of the confidence expressed by the board in extending his contract. He came to the school district in April 2013.

“There is much work left to do to place the district on firm footing with regard to resolving overcrowding and underfunding. The entire district is pushing to the ultimate objective of an improved overall educational program for our students,” the superintendent said.

Tomazic’s new contract is for the period from Jan. 1, 2016, to June 30, 2020, according to Howe.

Most of the terms and conditions of employment of school superintendents in New Jersey, such as salary caps, are promulgated by law, according to the business administrator.

“One such provision of the law is that no superintendent shall acquire tenure, so boards of education must continue to offer contracts of employment to superintendents on a periodic basis,” Howe said.

Tomazic’s salary under the new contract will be $155,000 annually, which is the same as his current contract.

For the 2014-15 school year, Tomazic received bonus pay of $7,750 for achievement of two qualitative merit goals.