Carl O.E. Bosenberg

Carl O.E. Bosenberg, 96, died Dec. 6 at the Francis E. Parker Memorial Home, Piscataway.

Born Sept. 29, 1919, in Jugenheim, Germany, he came to the United States with his parents, Henry F. and Martha Bosenberg, settling in North Brunswick in 1924.

He began working as a young boy with his father in the family business, Henry F. Bosenberg and Son Inc. in North Brunswick. In 1931, they developed the first ever-blooming climbing rose, the New Dawn, for which they were awarded United States plant patent number one.

Carl was a 1938 graduate of New Brunswick High School and a 1942 graduate of Rutgers University’s College of Agriculture. While at Rutgers, he wrestled, played on the 150-pound football team and was in the ROTC.

After graduation, he went to the Coast Guard Academy, New London, Connecticut. He served in the South Pacific during World War II aboard LST 24. He returned stateside in 1944 and served as the commanding officer of the station in Pascagoula, Mississippi. While there, he met Mildred N. Bundy, and they were married in 1945.

He remained in the Coast Guard for many years, retiring with the rank of Commander. After the war, Carl and Mildred returned to North Brunswick where they raised their family and lived for the remainder of their lives. Upon his return to North Brunswick, he continued to work with this father, taking over the business in 1962. They did residential landscaping and tree work, as well as commercial work for Rutgers University, Johnson & Johnson, and several area municipalities for many years.

During the 1950s, he served on the North Brunswick Board of Education.

His wife, Mildred, died in 2002.

Surviving are a son, Robert Bosenberg, and his wife, Kim, of Lacombe, Louisiana; a daughter, Martha Decker, and her husband, Dennis, of North Brunswick; four grandchildren, Matthew Decker, Scott Decker, Kate Louise (Decker) Corriero and Brett Bosenberg; and three great-grandchildren, Luke Decker, Lucy Decker and Finn Corriero.

A memorial service was held at Kirkpatrick Chapel, New Brunswick, and burial took place at Van Liew Cemetery, New Brunswick.

Funeral arrangements were made by Quackenboss Funeral Home, 156 Livingston, Ave., New Brunswick.

Memorial contributions may be made to the Coast Guard Mutual Assistance, 1005 N. Glebe Road, Suite 220, Arlington, Virginia, 22201, (online at www.cgmahq.org), or to Fisher House Foundation, which provides homes for military personnel and veterans while they receive medical care, at P.O. Box 97229, Washington, DC, 20077- 7804, (online at www.fisherhouse.org.)

Renaming buildings at Princeton is ‘hogwash’

People are talking about the renaming of buildings at Princeton University that bear the name of Woodrow Wilson, the desire by some individuals to erase and rewrite history in order to whitewash our past.

In this instance, describing the need by these people to remove a person’s name from a building because of a perceived slight is overly dramatic and self-serving.

First, Princeton should not weaken to these demands for removing Woodrow Wilson’s name from the building(s) in question. The reason for the removal is for alleged insensitivity. What hogwash. This man was the president of Princeton University at the turn of the last century and the president of the United States. He was president during World War I, was the chief architect for the League of Nations – the forerunner to the United Nations – and he “expanded Princeton into a full scale university” so the university, to honor him, “created the Woodrow Wilson School of Public and International Affairs.”

This school is known throughout the world – should it be renamed now? As one of the students at Princeton stated, “If the criteria for naming a building for someone was that they’d be perfect, we shouldn’t name buildings.” He was correct in his assessment.

Should we also look to remove his picture from the White House where it is hung in tribute to him as is done for all other presidents? When does political correctness go too far? Times have changed and what was once accepted and tolerated may no longer be; however, it doesn’t mean that history should be cleansed so that we can’t look back at mistakes or successes and learn from the past. Nor does it mean that a person’s accomplishments should be ignored because of modern day thinking.

To all of you politically correct individuals, learn to be more tolerant of the past and mature enough to know the difference. Stop blaming others for the slights that you believe are directed at you and enjoy life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness that this great country provides.

Bruce Papkin
Edison

Robert D. Azzara

Robert D. Azzara, 56, of East Brunswick passed away suddenly on Nov. 20.

Born in New Brunswick, he was a lifelong resident of East Brunswick and a graduate of Boston College.

In 2013, he retired from TD Bank, Morristown.

Surviving are his parents, Nicholas and Ann (Battaglia) Azzara of East Brunswick; his sister, Jamie Malloy and her husband, Michael, of Berwyn, Pennsylvania; his three nephews, Christofer, Nicholas and Michael Ryan; and his niece, Cara.

Funeral services were made by Rezem Funeral Home, 457 Cranbury Road, East Brunswick, and a Mass was held at St Bartholomew’s Roman Catholic Church, 470 Ryders Lane, East Brunswick.

Carriers should ensure deliveries

I have been hearing a lot in the news lately about missing packages from people’s front porches. The carriers who deliver the packages can solve this problem.

For example, as it is now, the delivery person sets the package on the front porch and rings the doorbell. The carrier does not wait to see if the customer is at home. Whatever happened to making sure the customer gets the shipment? There have been times when I was doing something upstairs and by the time I get downstairs the delivery person is in the truck already. In some cases, the customer may not be at home. Is it too much effort to go next door and leave the package with someone?

In conclusion, there is a solution to this problem and if the carriers (UPS, FedEx, DHL etc.) would finish doing the job by making sure the shipment actually gets into the customer’s hands then there would not be any problems.

Whatever happened to customer service?

Michael Hart
North Brunswick

Educating children is a Learning Experience

By KAYLA J. MARSH
Staff Writer

MATAWAN – A local early education academy is helping its young preschoolers become “little philanthropists” through a curriculum geared towards teaching lessons of hope and charitability, while also providing hands-on opportunities for students to effect change with their newfound skills.

“As part of The Learning Experience, we have a philanthropy curriculum [that] helps the children to learn that there is a world outside of their school and that … it is not about how big or small you are, it is the size of your heart that matters,” said Trish Tyler, assistant director of The Learning Experience in Matawan.

October and November saw the academy, located at 762 Rt. 34 in the borough, raise more than $600 towards advancing research and raising awareness about breast cancer, which Tyler said affects one in eight women and most families on some level.

“There was a three-year-old who was talking to his mom about what we were doing and was like ‘I’m a philanthropist mom’ so the fact that a three-year-old knew what the word philanthropist meant, it was super cool to see that in action,” she said.

According to Tyler, funds were donated in support of the Making Strides Against Breast Cancer walk that took place in Point Pleasant on Oct. 18.

“Everybody thinks kids are blind to things, but kids are a lot smarter than most people give them credit for,” she said. “They see what their grandmas are going through or what the moms of their friends are going through and they want to help.”

“They actually get that there are doctors somewhere who need money to help try to find a cure for this … and it is really exciting to see them in action. It gives you hope for the future.”

Tyler said encouraging students to be hands-on in their community and helping to effect change provides an education that can help make them well rounded in the future.

“Early childhood education is so important because it is about creating good little human beings for the future,” she said. “That is why we take things very seriously here – philanthropy, manners, etiquette, being nice to people … you want people that are going to give back and give hope to the future,” she said.

“It is about creating a good human being who is going to be well rounded and who is going to go out there and make a success out of whatever they choose to do.”

With lessons focusing on the value of helping others, volunteering and donating, Tyler said the decision to raise awareness and funds for breast cancer was easy.

“Breast cancer is something that we take very seriously because we’ve had numerous students whose parents have had to deal with it, so it hits very close to home,” Tyler said. “It is something we see on a daily basis so … we couldn’t think of anything else that we would want to sponsor more in October than something to do with breast cancer.”

According to Tyler, last year approximately $250 was raised in support of finding a cure, and this year the academy did things a little differently to double that number.

“The year before we had raised $250 and we had literally done that just by talking it up with parents and taking donations at the front desk,” Tyler said.

“This year … we did donations, but this time we did it online through the actual Making Strides site where we created our own micro-site that made it a lot more convenient for parents.”

“We bumped up the convenience factor of it so there was no excuse not to help.”

Like many municipalities passing resolutions declaring October “Paint the Town Pink” month in support of breast cancer awareness, Tyler said the academy decided to use the color as well to help generate support.

“Every Friday we went crazy by basically painting the school pink whether it was pink hair, pink jewelry, pink makeup … we even had special pink uniform shirts for the entire month of October that we wore every Friday to kind of bump up our presence,” she said.

“On the wall in our lobby everybody who donated had a pink ribbon until we basically filled up the wall with them.”

Tyler said also increasing presence on social media helped generate support.

“One of our vendors … who is a childhood friend of mine … her grandmother had to deal with [breast cancer and] she saw on our Facebook page that we were doing this with the school so she got the vendor to donate money to us which pushed us over our goal of $500 because we wanted to double what we did last year,” Tyler said.

“This was the first time we really used socially media and it was just amazing how well it worked. I was shocked.

“I feel like you can’t ask a community to support you, unless you support that community … and bumping that convenience factor up made it easier to double our efforts.”

Tyler said that come December the academy will be switching gear and getting into the season spirit by helping generate support for a new mitten drive aimed to assist the RAINE Foundation of Hazlet.

“Part of our curriculum, a big thing we are going to be working on, is changes in weather, so I got in contact with them and said we would love to do a cold weather drive and get them mittens, hats, gloves, scarves,” she said. “It is the first time we have ever done a mitten drive so I am excited to see how this could potentially turn out.”

The Learning Experience is one of the nation’s fastest growing academies of early education for children ages six weeks to five years old.

The academy places a prominent focus on preparing children academically and socially through innovative scholastic and enrichment programs crucial to advancing learning and overall balance, such as philanthropy, manners and etiquette and foreign language.

For more information visit www.thelearningexperience.com.

Steven Zlotkin

 Steven Zlotkin Steven Zlotkin Steven Zlotkin, a resident of San Juan Bautista, California, formerly of Freehold, suffered a fatal heart attack on Nov. 10 while at work in his office in Gilroy, California. Mr. Zlotkin was 67 years old. He was born in Freehold in 1948, the son of Sidney and Ida (Steinman) Zlotkin, both now deceased.

Mr. Zlotkin is survived by his wife, Jean Zlotkin; his sons, Benjamin and Michael Zlotkin; and his grandson, Rayland Zlotkin, 20 months. He is also survived by his daughter-in-law, Celicia Zlotkin; his sister, Susan Jan and her husband, Richard Davis; his cousins, Gary and Richard Brousell; Alan, Kevin and Nancy Friedland; and his niece, Christina Latta, and her husband, Karl, and son William.

Steve and Jean Zlotkin were married in 1975 and resided in California throughout their marriage. Steve owned and operated an automotive business now known as Overland Parts in Gilroy, California. During the last 30 years the business was primarily a Volkswagen and Audi auto parts distributor with worldwide customers and suppliers, but it all grew from a humble beginning in 1974 when it was known as “Steve’s Foreign Auto,” then located in Hollister, California.

While Steve spent long hours running his business, he also loved flying. He earned his commercial pilot’s license as a young man and flew his own single-engine aircraft until recently.

Steve, who was from the New Jersey shore area, loved the sea. He was happy at the helm out on the bay. During his life he owned and enjoyed boats of various types. The demands of his work and family did not allow him nearly enough time on the water, but it remained a special place of solace for him. He named his last boat “Escape.”

But Steve’s greatest passion throughout his career and family years was auto racing. He was an active driver and remained so until the time of his death. Though he won two national championships, he primarily raced regionally and found the camaraderie, competition and technical challenge of the sport fulfilling.

Steve always built his own cars and likely found that mechanical and engineering challenge to be the most satisfying part of all. In the early years, his neighbors in the hills west of San Juan would have seen the lights from his home shop illuminating the fog until the wee hours of the morning and perhaps may have even been annoyed occasionally by the thunderous sound of racing engines.

The family is deeply saddened by the sudden loss of Mr. Zlotkin.

Grunnagle-Ament-Nelson Funeral Home, Hollister, California, handled the funeral arrangements.

Memorial contributions may be made to a charity or public institution of the donor’s choice or to one which serves animal welfare or supports environmental protection of public lands, open space, forests or threatened or endangered species.

For messages of condolence, visit www.grunnagle.com.

Newcomer Shanice Williams shines in NBC’s star-studded live musical

By Lori Acken,

Somewhere over the Rainbow Room marquee that marks the eatery’s shared entrance with NBC Studios at New York City’s legendary 30 Rockefeller Plaza, a brand-new Dorothy prepares to make the “Wizard of Oz” story her own.

During an intense, nationwide audition process this past June, 19-year-old, applecheeked charmer Shanice Williams — a local-theater standout from Rahway, N.J. — warbled her way into the lead role in NBC’s The Wiz Live! (Thursday, Dec. 3), the Peacock’s third theater-meets-smallscreen production. The family-friendly extravaganza puts the bubbly, honey-voiced Williams square in the middle of the Live! franchise’s most star-studded lineup yet, including Queen Latifah as The Wiz, Mary J. Blige as Evillene, David Alan Grier as Cowardly Lion, Elijah Kelly as Scarecrow, Ne-Yo as Tin Man and Stephanie Mills — who originated the Dorothy role in The Wiz’s Broadway debut when she was just Williams’ age — as Auntie Em.

“She is so adorable,” exclaims Williams, who delved into Lincoln Center archives to study Mills’ performance in the Tony-winning 1975 original. “She made me cry, and I made her cry. Her voice still sounds the same from when she was 16. What can you say to that? She’s my inspiration. She started singing, and I just started crying. Her voice, it just touches you!”

Like its predecessors, 2013’s The Sound of Music Live! and 2014’s Peter Pan Live!, The Wiz boasts an impressive theater pedigree — executive-produced by Craig Zadan and Neil Meron, directed by Tony winner Kenny Leon (Broadway’s 2014 A Raisin in the Sun revival) and featuring new written material by the inimitable Harvey Fierstein. Cirque du Soleil performers and jaw-dropping costumes by award-magnet costumer Paul Tazewell amp up the wow factor.

Williams says she was “overcome with gratitude” when Leon himself delivered the news of her big break. Having spent two semesters at a Los Angeles performing arts school, the lifelong music buff wondered if there really was no place like home. She returned to Rahway for the summer and was contemplating her next move when she spied the Wiz audition online and made herself a deal. She’d give it her best shot and resume her school search if it didn’t pan out.

“I was already so comfortable with [the material],” said the longtime fan of the 1978 film (starring Diana Ross as Dorothy and Michael Jackson as Scarecrow) who played good witch Addaperle in a middleschool production. “I never really dug deep into the role of Dorothy, but I just felt like, ‘OK, I already know this story. I love this show. It’s gonna be fun.”

Suffice it to say those school applications are going to have to wait — likely indefinitely — while Williams eases on down the road to success with the support of her famous “sweet and welcoming and chill” costars.

“I run eight-hour rehearsals, and they go by in five minutes,” Williams says. “I’m living my journey. I’m having fun — and everyone in this cast is amazing. We’re gonna give you guys a great show. You guys are not ready for this show! I’m having the time of my life!”